学习新语言时，有很多理由是负面的。

It takes too long, it’s too hard, other people are better than you, none of the software or products or apps or methods you’ve bought are working, nobody wants to talk to you, the language is hard to pronounce, nobody understands you when you do talk to them, it’s embarrassing to screw up, it’s impossible to learn all the little grammatical details that don’t seem to have any purpose other than to confound language learners and be impossible for native speakers to explain without saying “that’s just how it is,” the less you speak the more you lose, it’s too difficult to find time while juggling work, family, other hobbies, sleeping and eating, your brain is too old to learn new things well enough, what you learn out of a textbook is not what’s actually spoken on the street, reading takes forever and your brain hurts afterwards, you’ll never be as good as your bilingual friend, your kids don’t want to speak the language you’re teaching them, you’ll never be good enough to get a job or write professionally if you don’t have twenty years to learn all the local idioms and slang, and even if you do you’ll never get that “feel” for how the locals speak it, and even if you do, the locals will never consider you one of them, your parents won’t speak their native language with you even though you took the time to learn it, your friends are too impatient when you try to speak with them, you have no cultural context so the language you’re learning might as well be memorizing gibberish, it’s impossible to get those particular tones or guttural sounds right, turns out the cute boy or girl in the language class is already seeing someone…

好的。放松。屏住呼吸，握住，放开。

是的，有很多原因是负面的。如果它有助于将它们全部写出来，那就让他们走开。最重要的是语言学习是关于乐趣。最重要的是，这应该是一种愉快的经历。不要忘记，所有愉快的经历都带有痛苦，痛苦和艰辛。这使愉快的零件变得更加愉快。与上面的握把段相比，我可以写页和页面爱关于学习新语言。

不要成为道路狂欢的语言学习者 - 放松，玩得开心，享受道路。这是旅程，而不是目的地，还记得吗？这对您来说可能是完全明显的，但是有时我需要提醒自己放弃一些蒸汽，然后回到一半的玻璃上。

希望您会记得做同样的事情！